Mind your own business

What is it with people who think that they can share your business with others? Especially after you've specifically asked them not to!? It's enough that I've had to share some things with people recently that I haven't wanted to, but then to have someone else, someone who has no reason to share my life with others by the by, make that information public is not ok?! Did he even stop to think or remember that I asked him not to? I am not ready for this info to be out there for everyone to know...there are still too many who are too close to me who don't know. AHHHHHHHHHH!! And he wonders why I have issues trusting him...gee, where did that come from? Where would I have ever gotten the impression that he's untrustworthy? Shocking...

I guess what makes me so angry isn't so much the fact that the information was shared...it was that I wasn't the one to share MY private information. It's really only my right to share it with whom I want to and when I want to. There is a steady stream of profanity that wants to escape my lips right now...to bust through this perfectly crafted facade. I want to remain cool, calm, and collected, but dammit...he's making it oh so hard! All I can say is I am pissed....